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Støre involved in child welfare case

January 24, 2012  

Foreign Minister Jonas Gahr Støre has taken the unusual move of involving himself in a child welfare case involving a family from India, after it sparked international media coverage over the weekend and allegations of cultural prejudice. Both Støre and officials at Noway’s child protection agency Barnevernet insist no prejudice or misunderstandings are involved.

Foreign Minister Jonas Gahr Støre was traveling to Myanmar (Burma) this week, but before he left, he tried to help sort out a controversial child welfare case involving an Indian family in Norway. PHOTO: Utenriksdepartementet

The rights and well-being of children are taken very seriously in Norway, contends Støre, while Barnevernet officials claim they were simply doing their job when they removed two children from their parents’ home in Stavanger last spring. A local family court upheld the authorities’ decision in November and the parents, who have been granted free legal services in Norway, have appealed.

The Norwegian child welfare workers won’t say exactly what prompted them to place the five-month-old girl and her three-year-old brother, both Indian citizens, in a foster home, not least because such family issues are bound by confidentiality rules in Norway. The children’s parents have claimed, though, that their children were taken from them because of cultural misunderstandings, allegedly because they fed the children with their hands and because the boy slept in his father’s bed.

Gunnar Toresen, head of Child Welfare Services in Stavanger, has claimed that no such observations are included in the court ruling that upheld the parents’ loss of custody, and he “most strongly” denies any “cultural prejudice or misinterpretation” (external link) is behind the move to put the children in protective custody. Støre noted, meanwhile, that the children’s removal from their parents was a “rare” move of intervention. Indeed, Norway’s child welfare agency more often faces criticism within the country for failing to remove children soon enough from homes where they’re not believed to be receiving adequate care or are subject to abuse.

‘Media campaign’
The children’s parents and grandparents have vigorously objected to the Norwegian authorities’ decision, launched what the Norwegian authorities call “a media campaign in India,” and took their complaints to the president of India, Pratibha Patil, over the weekend. The case received widespread coverage in India, topped NDTV’s newscasts with the headline “Norway Nightmare” and caught attention in other countries as well.

That prompted Støre to contact India’s Minister for External Affairs, SM Krishna, on Monday. A press release from Norway’s Foreign Ministry stated that the two government officials “discussed the issue” and that Støre “assured Minister Krishna that the Norwegian authorities are working hard to find a solution that is in the best interests of the children involved.” Støre stressed that Child Welfare Services in Stavanger has “firmly denied that this is based in any way on cultural prejudice or misinterpretation.”

The Norwegian ministry reported that Støre and Krishna “agreed that close contact between the competent Norwegian and Indian authorities would be essential for finding a solution.” Barnevernet staff is already “in dialogue” with the Indian Embassy in Oslo and the parents’ lawyer, in the hopes of agreeing on a proposal to be forwarded to the local court in Stavanger for a ruling on the case. Staff at the Indian Embassy was said to have been in “close contact” with the Norwegian government ministries involved and has met twice with the children, their parents and the child welfare officials.

Toresen told Norwegian Broadcasting (NRK) that a proposed solution “has been presented to the family and the Indian Embassy. We are awaiting a response.” He wouldn’t comment on its contents. The children’s parents live in Stavanger and have working permission in Norway until March.

Views and News from Norway/Nina Berglund

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  • Sachinjo

    This is disheartening, clear case of cultural misunderstanding. It is quite common in India to change diapers on bed, child sleeping with parents, eating food using fingers, etc. Such cultural insensitivity and intolerance is surprising while currently the world is a global village.

    Imagine Norwegian citizen visiting India on business or leisure trip and Indian authorities forcefully take away their children, how will they feel?

    I just hope God gives some brain and heart to the Norwegain authorities to understand the plight of Indian couple.

  • Welingkar

    This action by the Norwegian Child Welfare Services in Stavanger, not just show themselves in poor light as cultural ignoramuses but it is extremely cruel on their part to separate such young children from their parents at a tender age! It is shocking that this happened over eight months ago and it only surfaced now. If my child were subject to such treatment I would have launched criminal cases against the government of Norway and the Child Welfare Services and made sure they pay for their actions. I would have made sure the Norwegian authorities are tried for their actions in court.
    Norwegians and westerners must realise that children in India and many parts of Asia sleep with their parents, till they grow to an age where they sleep on their own. It is shocking for many of us in India to see such travesty being committed in the name of the welfare of the children. Please do not foist your values upon us. We think the sexual permissiveness in your societies, where young teenagers experiment and explore their bodies as shocking while it is okay for you. Should that mean we lock up every western teenager who lands up in India on grounds that their behaviour would be inappropriate. If this appears ludicrous to you, it is exactly the same way we feel about the way the Bhattacharyas have been treated.
    Time the west learnt to stop imposing its ways on people from other parts- even if they happen to be staying at your countries for a brief while. Please step out and try and understand how other cultures work…

    • http://profiles.google.com/kiwi.robbie Robert Cumming

      The law is the law, these people chose to live in Norway so they must abide by Norwegian laws, what they did or did not do back in India isn’t relevant. They were given plenty of warnings, which they chose to ignore, so the welfare agency had no choice, they had to take the children away. Indian values apply when in India, they don’t apply when in Norway.

      • http://www.facebook.com/dmitry.shaporenkov Dmitry Shaporenkov

        The law? Which law? Did these people violate any Norwegian law? Or it all was just up to subjective judgement of welfare services?

        • http://profiles.google.com/kiwi.robbie Robert Cumming

          Take a guess, I’ll give you a hint, it wasn’t Indian laws they violated!

          • http://www.facebook.com/dmitry.shaporenkov Dmitry Shaporenkov

            I haven’t heard of any detailed accounts of this case. The only thing I read was a message from child welfare services in Stavanger which didn’t cite any specifics and which they published when the story reached international prominence. I’m curious how you know which laws were violated. Any link?

  • Vivek C

    I am an Indian (raised by hand, slept communally, all of that) and I see this case with a lot of concern. Yes, the media campaign initiated by the parents highlights cultural prejudice and nanny state stupidity – Norway needs to introspect if any of that is true.

    I just read the note from Gunnar Toresen. It rejects all the reasons provided by the parents – so the separation was not because of hand feeding or sleeping as a family. Really? Then why the separation? And why have they released the children go now?

    Questions on my mind (and Gunnar’s note isn’t helping!): Is the father a pedophile? Is the mother insane? Are they both criminally negligent? Are the children at RISK? Why aren’t the REAL FACTS being disclosed? If there’s a crime behind all this smoke and nonsense, the parents must be punished! (In India hanging would be too good for bad parents.)

    Norway – we understand you are a wonderful country, superior race, etc. Can you please get off your pedestal and come clean with the Indian media once and for all?

    • sv131

      I agree. If you are taking someone’s children away, society has right to know on what grounds this was done so. Otherwise, people who allege that cultural prejudices were at work have a point.

  • http://twitter.com/DrGopal Dr Kalyani Gopal

    Research has shown that disruption of the early infant-mother bond has long term consequences of insecure attachment leading to behavioral, emotional dysregulation in young children. Trauma from removal especially from a secure bonding process that is in the process of development can cause deep neurological changes in the brain and later psychological impairments in mood, behavior, interpersonal relationships. As I have written in my book “The Supportive Foster Parent” infant attachment has the purpose of developing three skills: basic trust, responsive to social cues with smiling etc, and recognition of emotions. These skills are currently in the process of being harmed due to incorrect placement in foster care.
    Author: The Supportive Foster Parent
    http://www.thesupportivefosterparent.com
    @DrGopal

  • Arild Holta

    Norwegian children are removed from their ethnic Norwegian parents of the same reasons. People need to understand that the Norwegian child care is dangerous for everyone.

  • SRR

    It is time to charge Norwegians (and and other Scandinavians) with infant neglect if they travel outside their country and leave their infants unattended in strollers outside restaurants while they are dining inside. Their infants should be separated from their parents and given to the Child Development Agency in the local country, and the parents should be sent back to hunt seals in the fjords.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=612584036 Craig Aaen Stockdale

    There’s some pretty stong language in this comment thread (from posters such as ThisIsAnInsaneWorld and welingkar), considering that the Norwegian authorities aren’t saying what actually happened, so none of you actually KNOW anything except what the parents are saying. Of course, this sort of confidentiality is always assumed to be an admission of guilt (sv131, I’m looking at you – society does NOT have a “right to know”. This is currently a matter for the law). This has become a case of Trial-By-(Indian)-Media and I think people should tone down their rhetoric until we actually KNOW something.